So I was trying to think of a decent subject to discuss in todays blog and it just wasn't really happening.. I will give you an update on life but I kept trying to think of something better to talk about.. I had searched.. types of fish no... how to do this how to do that.. then I came across how to: Pick your mate... on ehow.com... Something so hard was described in three easy steps for those who are looking.. Let's see what they had to say with perhaps some added commentary.
Picking a partner for life is the most important decision you will ever make. I was certainly unaware it was such a conscious decision on your part. I know you have to find someone you mesh well with but hell if it was only based on what you want.. it'd be so much easier right? Your eyes will send false signals to your heart, and your body will let its desires be known. Don't give in to your heart or body with out checking with the mind first. I think I might have the opposite problem.. My mind seems to outweigh both my heart and my body. It tells me it's the right decision or the right choice.. and that there's only a certain amount of time to have kids and get married and all those things.. and yet the body and the heart is saying it's just not there yet... or somethign to that extent. but regardless let's continue: Here is how to pick a mate to love until the end of time:
Difficulty: Challenging If that's not the understatement of the year or ever..
Step1
Decide what's important to you in a mate. If being able to provide you with a good future is important, eliminate all your suiters with out the three "C's" Career, Car, and Cash which make it possible to achieve and maintain a high living standard. It is hard to achieve the American dream broke.
Here's my first problem.. I have alot of things that are important to me when it comes to a mate, but I do tend to give in and alter my expectations. I'm pretty sure if I kept my standards so high I'd never have a date. I also think that I'm not perfect and so my standards are lowered a good 10 degrees simply because what I think I can catch. You gotta wonder what kind of person is writing this ehow especially when you get to steps 2 and 3 and the tips lol Step2
Before getting involved and putting your heart in danger, do a background check. Eliminate all suiters with a criminal record. Criminals come along with pain,heart ache, and loneliness because they eventually get locked up. No reason to give your parents and friends reasons to gloat and say "I told you so!"
LOL LOL LOL did I mention LOL ? Step3
Make sure your potential mate is available and not married to someone else. If you are being pursued by someone who is pledged to another, they are breaking their vows, and can't be trusted. Disloyalty is a flaw in character not conducive of a life-long
relationship
. Chances are if they cheat on their current mate, they will disrespect you in the same manner.
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