It's been awhile

So It's been awhile.. and I'm about ready to retire this blog.. because currently I'm in a relationship with just one guy.. so the joys of dating are reserved for others..

I will update just a bit..

I heard from one of the guys.. I think he was Guy-that-would-never-date-me Guy.. he sent me a myspace message that said:
I'm back in LA and you have a b/f.. that sucks lol
You snooze you lose.. sorry

I have almost completely elminated all the other guys.. Natealike still wants to be friends although his definition of friends involves dates and holding hands.. so that has to be nixed... JourneyGuy has stopped trying to friend me on myspace and text me as much.. he will still occasionally send me the I hope you have a great weekend text..

I am pretty okay with how things have turned out.. and it was fun to shop around while I could and everybody should.. But I'm sticking with Smoker-guy for now.. (despite his smokerness) and we'll see what happens...

Perhaps more updates to come.. and perhaps not.. who knows

Spring Time

So it's almost April. I figured I should be studying and instead have decided to blog just a bit.

I have thoroughly enjoyed dating and the dating experience. Others should try it because it's that fun. But the worst part is the breaking up.. or the attempted breakups.. sometimes people just don't get it..

So "nate-a-like" guy has been really pushing... saying he misses me and that he wants to hang out.. and I had to have that conversation like hey we're just friends.. and he just didn't get it.. but everyone loves you and you have a cute smile and you laugh when we're together.. Yes all those things may be true... but just cause someone laughs at your jokes or you think they are cute doesn't mean you're meant to be together.. Right?

I also have slowly and surely trying to distance myself from "journeyguy." He pushed alot too.. What's up with these guys and pushing.. Saying they love you after weeks.. it's not something you're just suppose to throw around right? I'm suppose to go to Nickelback in April with journeyguy.. and I'm sort of avoid it.. but I want to go lol.. any advice? It's just like when I'm with him.. it's all about pushing.. and he can tell I'm pulling away and pushes more which doesn't help.

In other news, I was "smokerguy's" date for one of his friend's sister's wedding. It was alot of fun (partially fueled by an open bar). I even caught the bouquet lol fancy fancy. There was more booze to follow. I have the most fun with him. It helps he has great friends who I get along with really well. It's weird how things have worked out thus far. Anyways, not much else is going on in the dating world.

I did forget that I saw firstdate guy at Mardi Gras.. he just showed up one night at my apartment which was super weird especially cause I had said I was going to be busy.. still showed up and gave me my birthday present about lots of months late.. It's okay though I guess.. I don't know what to do with that.. See I told you I'm bad at breakups lol (if they count as breakups when you technically was never exclusive with any to begin with)

Dating Hoos and Ha's lol I dunno

So let's see where dating in my life is currently:

I went to a basketball game with Nate-a-like guy.

I went shopping (like serious shopping) with JourneyGuy.

I went to the bars (what else) with SmokerGuy and we've also had a few stay in movie nights which aren't too bad either. SmokerGuy has declared he will quit smoking.. let's see if he sticks to it.. It is also his birthday next weekend.. and he invited me to go camping with him for the weekend.. I of course said if my dog can come lol cause she very well can't be by herself all weekend.. and the likelyhood of roommates taking care of her and not ignoring her are slim to none.. So if all goes well I will be camping next weekend (although sadly missing some parades.. good thing there are still a billion more lol)..

I went to see "He's just not that into you" with JourneyGuy which was really good actually. I liked it alot it's super cute and if you haven't seen it you should. Other movies on my to see list: Confessions of a shopaholic, Something with matthew mcconahay (I heart him), Mall Cop, and there are some others coming out later on I'd like to see.

In other news.. I currently have my POF profile hidden. I'm happy with the juggling I'm doing and there are few more potentials added to the mix that I'm talking to online but for now I'll stick with what I have.. I'll keep you posted.

Flat Tires...

Hmm I think that something fishy is going on if I do say so myself..

On Saturday journey-guy visited my apartment only to get a flat tire... Last night Smoker-Guy visited my apartment only to get a flat tire.. WTF.. I don't like flat tires.. I already had one this year I don't want another one.. gah

A week of updates.. sorta

So let's see since last Friday I spent alot of time with Smoker-guy... we went out with his friends on Friday and I got much much much too drunk..

Saturday journey-guy took care of me because I had absolutely no desire to being doing anything but sleeping.. Kind of Ironic I'd say but okay..

Then let's see.. Tuesday was test. Wednesday was work. Thursday I went out with Smoker-guy... he has a tendency to say things when drinking and later rehash them. He invited me to dinner and to go out on Friday except then on Friday he had no money... So I went out with Natealike guy for dinner and went out to drink with SmokerGuy after. Spent the night at SmokerGuys house cause I wasn't driving home..

I think I might actually like SmokerGuy more than the rest which of course sucks cause today I got the shrugg off.. He told me he wanted to spend most of the weekend with me and now doesnt want to do anything.. I think that guys must just know when you start to like them and that's when they decide to not like you.. I don't know... It's a good thing that I have backups lol or rather other options because I might be hurt.. lol

More to come...

The shirt of question???

So I have a shirt... at my apartment.. that could be 1 of 2 of the dates.. and I have no idea which one it is.. now this presents quite the delimea because to ask if this is your shirt begs the question who else's shirt would it be.. or if it is then why would you be asking you know it's mine. So instead of the direct asking approach I've left it sitting at the end of my bed on my seating area and hope that the owner comes to claim it.

How to: Pick a Mate?

So I was trying to think of a decent subject to discuss in todays blog and it just wasn't really happening.. I will give you an update on life but I kept trying to think of something better to talk about.. I had searched.. types of fish no... how to do this how to do that.. then I came across how to: Pick your mate... on ehow.com... Something so hard was described in three easy steps for those who are looking.. Let's see what they had to say with perhaps some added commentary.

Picking a partner for life is the most important decision you will ever make. I was certainly unaware it was such a conscious decision on your part. I know you have to find someone you mesh well with but hell if it was only based on what you want.. it'd be so much easier right? Your eyes will send false signals to your heart, and your body will let its desires be known. Don't give in to your heart or body with out checking with the mind first. I think I might have the opposite problem.. My mind seems to outweigh both my heart and my body. It tells me it's the right decision or the right choice.. and that there's only a certain amount of time to have kids and get married and all those things.. and yet the body and the heart is saying it's just not there yet... or somethign to that extent. but regardless let's continue: Here is how to pick a mate to love until the end of time:

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging If that's not the understatement of the year or ever..

Step1

Decide what's important to you in a mate. If being able to provide you with a good future is important, eliminate all your suiters with out the three "C's" Career, Car, and Cash which make it possible to achieve and maintain a high living standard. It is hard to achieve the American dream broke. Here's my first problem.. I have alot of things that are important to me when it comes to a mate, but I do tend to give in and alter my expectations. I'm pretty sure if I kept my standards so high I'd never have a date. I also think that I'm not perfect and so my standards are lowered a good 10 degrees simply because what I think I can catch. You gotta wonder what kind of person is writing this ehow especially when you get to steps 2 and 3 and the tips lol

Step2

Before getting involved and putting your heart in danger, do a background check. Eliminate all suiters with a criminal record. Criminals come along with pain,heart ache, and loneliness because they eventually get locked up. No reason to give your parents and friends reasons to gloat and say "I told you so!" LOL LOL LOL did I mention LOL ?

Step3

Make sure your potential mate is available and not married to someone else. If you are being pursued by someone who is pledged to another, they are breaking their vows, and can't be trusted. Disloyalty is a flaw in character not conducive of a life-long relationship. Chances are if they cheat on their current mate, they will disrespect you in the same manner.

Tips & Warnings

• Where you find your mate has a lot to say about their character. If you don't want to partner with a drunk, don't choose someone you met at the bar!
• Beauty is only skin deep. Ugly goes all the way to the bone!

Ponder a bit while I think of a blog to update on all my adventures